I think I struggle less when I learn how to struggle. I get less done, but what I do is easier. This especially is true in how I approach gardening. If it doesn’t give me joy, I typically don’t do it.
I admit to being one of those drivers who drive at or slightly above the speed limit. I am less intense, even though I realize I may frustrate more ambitious , anxious drivers. I may take note and even comment about drivers who do dumb or outrageous things . But they bother me less. I struggle less.
