Holy

When I was growing up, it was easy to know what was holy. It was a special designation applied to things that had been somehow blessed. We even gave some of them names, such as holy water. I learned that water was considered holy because it had been blessed by a priest. It was simply called holy water to distinguish its special status.

I also learned from the nuns whom I helped in the sacristy, that in time of shortage more water could be made holy by adding ordinary water to what had already been made holy. I was cautioned not to add more than half, lest the holiness be too diluted. I figured out that once such a mixing was carefully done, another half could be added to what I had just made holy. The waving hands and words of a priest’s blessing could be made unnecessary.

In my young mind, some cynical, doubting seeds were being planted at an early age.

Those early seeds have grown into a full-blown conviction that I make nothing holy. I am convinced that holiness is a given. All things are holy, if only I have the eyes to see. I have begun to reclaim the sense of holy that once was commonplace. I am in my small way retracing the steps that humans took to move away from the holy. I am remembering a time when my ancestors considered all things holy, especially the earth.

I think that my ancestors once woke up in the morning with a sense that the world around was holy, a manifestation of the divine. There were certain places where the experience of that holiness was especially strong. These were hills, streams, mountains and caves. There were some living things like trees and even some structures which were more evidently holy. Some people were more clearly manifestations of an ultimate reality. But holiness was ubiquitous, widespread, in all things.

Unfortunately, some of my ancestors sought to separate holiness from common, day to day experience. The sense of the divine was pushed away from the tangible earth and became a fixture “out there” in a separate place. Birth and death became extraordinary events, no longer part of the routine cyclical order of reality. Immortality became wishful thinking when a sense of the timeless here and now was abandoned. What was once a sense of all of reality became lost. My ancestors reached out in desperation for escape into a future imagined reality.

My own dualistic way of thinking is part of my impoverished inheritance from my ancestors who no longer saw all things as holy. I want to reclaim what they lost. I want a ripening sense of the here and now, my way of experiencing the holy. I want the earth to be a living entity for me, glowing with all the radiance of what is holy.

Neither I or anyone else can make anything holy. Everything around me is by nature already holy. I may uncover or discover that holy nature, but it is already there.

Without intending, the nuns in my grade school may have sparked a latent awareness in me by telling me to just add more water to make more holy water. They too may have had the intuition that the water was actually already holy. All the water.

Want

To want. To want is such a marvelous gift. Instinctively I know what it means to want. It was part of me from my first manifestation as an infant. The universe conspired and converged to form this bundle of want, this rich mass of focused desire. The universe has summoned me to respond with an energized Yes. The call is in the marrow of my bones. I want. I have always wanted.

All things are driven by want, and I am no exception. Like the parts of atoms, I am naturally drawn to want, to be connected to all that surrounds me. Will I yield to the pull? Will I say yes?

For me it has become enough to want deeply, knowing I will never possess what I want. It is both enough and most intense to want, yet not possess. To attempt to possess extinguishes want.

I see around me that there are those who may seem to want, but they are in fact driven to possess. For them it has become an illusion and unnatural state to hoard, to only posses. And they have spent, lost the intense energy of want.

When I first manifested in the world at my birth, I was a child of great latent want. That rich want grew more bountiful and powerful as I grew.

But want is not the realm of youth alone. I can grow with passing time and the edge of want can sharpen. I could have joined those whose want is allowed to be blunted, but that certainly is not my intent. I have instead chosen to sharpen my want on the steel of aging. I intend to give myself to the sharp edge of want, allow myself to feel want deeply

I will be someone who wants. For me, to want is to become radically authentic. To want is the sweet and intoxicating essence of being alive.

Dependent

This is an outline of a presentation I gave on January 8, 2022 of two chapters in “Awakening of the Heart,”  Dependent Co-arising,  & Walking the Middle Path.

Finding out about, understanding the middle way & how to walk the middle path

I was glad to spend some extra time mulling over these two chapters

  • “dependent co-arising’ has always been obscure words
  • Now see it is trying to describe the indescribable
  • Barry’s view:  mycelial network in reality; touch one thing and you touch it all.;   the dendrites in our brain, neurons being phenomenal manifestations.
  • Holding a paradox in focus, two contradictory notions at the same time.
  • Using language to explain what is beyond language; language is essentially dualistic.  Dependent co-arising is about unity.

What I think Thay has to say about dependent co-arising

  • Payoff:  meditate on dependent co-arising, end of suffering
  • All wrong perceptions no longer exist
  • “that’s not it” shifts to “it is something like this”
  • How to learn the middle way

Causes and conditions; think about it in a non-linear way

  • Not the way I learned causality
  • Which came first:  chicken or egg?   Yes
  • Everything is the result of multiple causes and conditions
  • Cause = principal condition
  • Conditions = necessary but subsidiary
  • Not only true that various conditions cause suffering to arise; true of all phenomena

Everything comes to be because of multiple ( infinite? ) causes and conditions

  • Constantly changing; not linear
  • Buddha (and Thay) “ experience it your self”   (‘I can’t explain it;  but I can give similes”)
  • See for yourself:   not revelation; not what the early bishops liked
  • Not a “truth” but the truth is there; in the dharma realm
  • Beyond phenomena;    ?? conditioned vs. ultimate??;  Is dependent co-arising at the junction of condioned and ultimate??  hold paradox in hand
  • Think beyond being and non-being;  death and birth = the middle way;  neither and both
  • This is because that is:   like mono vision in my experience
  • Examples don’t really explain; they soften the mind to accept what is beyond concepts, language.

12 links of dependent co-arising

  • Ignorance “causes”, informs the others;   but they are all inter-related.
  • Not see in a linear fashion.   
  • All depend on one another to exist;  concepts help me to understand the dynamics of causality.
  • 12 links of dependent co-arising help see the teaching on emptiness.
  • I like: Dependent co-arising sometimes called the “great emptiness”
  • For me it is the reverse:   reflecting on emptiness helps me look into the notion of dependent co-arising.

Payoff:  meditating on dependent co-arising allows us to go beyond all other questions 

  • Overcome all our wrong perceptions;  notions of self, living being,etc no longer exist. ( eg. Thay’s latest book )
  • No longer suffer because of our wrong views.

This has been about how to understand the Middle Way

Walking the Middle Way

What are the practical implications

  • Besides meditating on dependent co-arising, how to apply to our daily lives

Don’t be attached to the teachings

  • Teachings are not revelation.
  • Teachings are to help us, but have to be handled skillfully.

Ignorance gives rise to habit energies, many are unhelpful

  • Repeat the same thing, the same suffering over and over again.
  • Transform this habit energy by the energy of mindfulness; 
  • Energy of mindfulness leads to the energy of concentration, and that to the energy of insight.
  • This has been my experience.
  • Is there a “good” habit energy??;   can be helpful, but it is a problem if, it is not used mindfully.
  • Main point:   Ignorance, ignorance of the Middle Way, ignorance of dependent co-rising , no longer pushes us to act in negative ways.

Affects how we relate to others

  • No longer react in a non-mindful way, based on habit energies.

Habit energy of suffering is inherited

  • Resmaa agrees with Thay
  • Mindfulness allows a practice of liberation; of freedom. 
  • Insight of the Middle Way helps us know how to relate to others.   Neither this or that.  ;   see situations with understanding of dependent co-arising.   
  • Learn to see others with insight;   w/o conventional designations.
  • See how we are linked to them:   the benefit of meditating on dependent co-arising.
  • See true nature of self and others:   become free;  experience the freedom of the Middle Way.
  • We get to try, like Thay, to explain dependent co-arising to others because we have experienced it, a little perhaps.